HoPes & DisApPoiNtmEnt... ReaLiTy & eXpEcTaTioNs...

WhaT iS e deFinItiOn oF hOpEs & DisAppOinTmEnT.. iF u ChEck uP e dIctiOnArY, u'll gET tIs..

HopEs: A wIsH oR dEsIrE aCcOmpAnIeD bY cOnFIdEnT eXpEcTatIoN oF iTs fUlfiLmEnT

DiSaPpOinTmEnt: a fEeLiNg oF dIsSatIsfAcTioN tHaTs rEsuLts wHen uR eXpEcTatIoNs aRe nOt rEaLiZeD

oFtEn pEoPle wiLL sAyS tIs: 希望越高，失望越大

i bEliEvE EvEryoNe eXpeRiEnCe tIs bEfOre..bE iT eXaMs oR aNytHinG.. sOmEtImEs, iT's e hOpEs oR rAtHeR eXpEcTaTiOn tt kEePs Us gOiNg fOrwArD aLthOuGh sETbAcKs wErE mEt.. bUt iT's aLwaYs nOt a gOoD fEeLiNg tO fEeL dIsapPoiNteD.. EspEcIaLLy tOwArdS pEoPle tHaT u cArE.. hOwEvEr, tOo mUcH oF hOpEs iS nOt a gOoD thiNg pErhApS aFtEraLL.. iT mAy tUrN dIsApPoiNtMeNt aNd hEaRt-bReaKiNg..

希望与失望只不过是一线之差

a typIcAl eXaMpLe, aFteR dOiNg ur bEsT & sO mUch fOr tHe pErSon, disAppOiNtmEnt iS wAd u gEt.. In tHiS cAsE, bOtH pARtiEs, tHe "gIve" & "tAke" fEeL hEaRt-bReaKiNg.."giVe" mAy fEeLs pErhApS iT's nOt thE dIsaPpOiNtmEnt tAt's heArt-bReakiNg, iT's tHe aPpReCiaTion..mUch liKe hw u'Re bEiNg aPpRecIatEd aFtEr dOiNg sO mUch.. "tAkE" mAy fEeLs uNdErsTaNdaBle aNd aPpReciAtEd, bUt juX cAnT aCcEPt iT aT tHe mOmEnT, tT's y uSe e wOrd "dIsaPpOiNtiNg".. "tAkE" dOn mEaNt iT, fOr a rEmArKs tT's sO hUrtfuL tO bOtH pArTiEs.. "tAkE" iS sO hUrT tOo n sOrRy bOuT iT..

ThiS iS my sTaNd & vIew oN tHe exAmpLe tAt i'vE gOt oN hAnD.. wHat's yOuRs??!! *_*


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ReaLiTy & eXpEcTaTiOnS...

wHat iS rEaLiTy & expEcTaTioNs oF uR liFe?? My liFe, rEaLiTy iS sOmEthInG i HavE tO aCcEPt by loGiC.. ExPecTaTiOnS iS sOmEthIng i wAnT tO dO n eXpEcT oF.. sO wHaT's yOuRs??

oFtEn, i'm sAnDwIcHeD bEtWeEn rEaLitY & eXpEcTaTiONs.. In a sItUatIon wHerEbY i hAve tO aCcEpT tHe fAcTs bY loGic n unDersTaNdaBle... bUt oN tHe oThEr hAnD, my hEaRt cANt aCcEpT iT n iS fEeLiNg tErRibLe.. sOmEtiMes, i dUnNo wAt tO dO n wHo tO tUrN tO.. iN a hElpLeSs sItUatIoN.. wHaT shOuLd i dO???


EvErytHiNg iS linKeD, jUx liKe a fOoD cHaiN.. sLowLy bEcoMiNg sO RouTinE, sOmEtHinG i dOn wIsHeD fOr.. iT mAkEs liFe sO dEad aNd bOriNg.. My LiFe, I juX hOpE i Can be mySeLf n lEad a cArefReE n eVer-cHaNgiNg liFe.. i lOvE mY liFe fOr sUrpRisE evEry nOw & dEn ** a gOoD sUrpRiSe tHOu** n SoMetHiNg nEw tO loOk fOrwArD tO..sOmEtHiNg wHeRe by i dOn hAv tO dO eVerYdAy tT iT bEcOmE sO rOuTinE... GOOD CHANGES EVERY NOW N DEN...

It's a wOndErFul nItEx tOdAe..A nItEx tT i dOnE sO mUch tHinKiNg.. dOeS tT mAkEs mE gRoWn sEnsiBle a liTtLe?? haHa.. im jUx nAive nOw, nOt ChiLdiSh..iT's dIfFeReNt..... sTop sAyiNg i'm cHiLdiSh k..... HaHa...... ^_^

wOrkInG hArD tO fInD jObs de peEpS n sTudyiNg de... jIa yOu~~

TakE cArE gUys...


** It hUrTs tHe mOsT wHeN u cAn aCtUaLLy fEeL uR hEaRT bReAkiNg.....

** yOu cAn cLoSe uR eYeS tO tHiNgS u dOn wAn tO sEe, bUt cAnT cLoSe uR hEaRt tO tHiNgS u dOn wAn tO fEeL......


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eVerYtHiNg wAs sO nIcE tOdAe n gReAt yEsTerDay, bUt iT's aLwaYs e eNdiNg tT's sO tErRiBle.. is mY eNdiNg gOiNg tO bE aLwAyS liKe tt..?? sRy, i dOn mEanT tO eNd iT tIs wAy........... i pRomIsE tO leaRn tO lEt gO mOrE n iNdEpEnDeNt.. i jUx nId tiMe n sOmEoNe tO tUrn tO wHen u'rE nOt aRd bY mY sIdE.. pRomIsE tO gIve mE tIme..... Sorry~~